(9) Hermit (Reversed) in Feelings

Hermit (Reversed) In Feelings

Examples (in relation to feelings):

• Someone who may be experiencing a terrible sense of loneliness and self pity, and fear of growing old by themselves.
• Someone in the midst of a midlife crisis.
• Someone who will not own up to things when they are in the wrong, even when deep down they know they are.
• Someone who has become so self absorbed that they have cut themselves off from their loved ones.
• Someone who is mean spirited and cynical to a fault.
• Someone who needs to reach out into the darkness and accept the support being offered from others.
• Someone who prefers to avoid problems instead of facing up to them.
• Someone who lacks courage to answer for the consequences of his actions, and instead *lies low* until the dust has settled.
• Someone who is intentionally hiding from public view, or forcing another to accept seclusion.

Page of Swords In Feelings

Page of Swords In Feelings

Examples (in relation to feelings):

• Someone who feels uncertain about expressing their true feelings about an issue, this may be because they fear hurting someone elses feelings.
• Someone who deserves to know the truth about certain situations, lies and intrigues will be uncovered. 
• Someone who has received an upsetting message. or has been on the receiving end of vicious gossip and slander. 
• Someone who is watching from afar, gathering information in the shadows, even spying on another.
• Someone who has received a message involving some kind of change in circumstances or an ending. 
• Someone who prefers to remain aloof and at a distance (for the time being).
• Someone who is manipulative, and may be capable of deception.
• Someone who is *stalking* another and gathering information inconspicuously.
• Someone who has a lot on their mind, and is having to think on their feet to resolve certain issues.
• Someone who has a great desire to speak their mind, and express their true feelings.
• Someone who is very perceptive, possessing both a sharp mind and tongue, who will ask lots of questions.
• Someone who admires honesty and trust within a relationship, and will not beat about the bush if they feel things are not working out.

Eight of Cups Reversed In Life (General)

Eight of Cups Reversed In Life (General)

Examples (General Reading):

• Someone who needs to change their outlook on life, and reign in their vices before things get out of control. 
• Someone who is feeling bored with life, resulting in restless (and reckless) behaviour. This could be extremely damaging to a once impeccable reputation.
• Someone who produces *shoddy* work because their heart is not really in the task being undertaken, procrastination reigns (a *couldn't care less* attitude).
• Someone who makes the same mistakes time and time again, learning nothing from the consequences of being too impulsive 
• Someone who is leaving a situation that seems to be no longer working for them anymore, but should stop to consider whether they are being too hasty.
• Someone who believes the grass is greener on the other side of the fence (when infact it isn't!).
• Someone who is partying more than normal, and burning the candle at both ends. 
• Someone whose lover/partner has returned after a separation (intense sexual attraction is indicated).
• Someone who needs to shed old baggage, and welcome new joys and blessings into their life.
• Someone who desires a new direction, but is filled with apprehension about which one to take. (drifting aimlessly).

(6) The Lovers In Love

The Lovers In Love

Examples (in regards to romance/relationships):

• Someone who has formed a strong bond with another, indicating a very close and intimate relationship between two people.
• Someone who has a strong physical/sexual attraction to another person.
• Someone who will encounter a soul-mate, resulting in mutual love and a well matched couple.
• Someone who has an important choice to make. With careful thought, the right decision can be made.
• Someone who has to choose between two potential partners.
• Someone who is involved in a passionate affair behind their partners back.
• Someone who is thinking about marriage.

Eight of Cups In Love

Eight of Cups In Love

Examples (in regards to romance/relationships):

• Someone who is moving away from a troubled relationship, in search of something more emotionally fulfilling.
• Someone who is healing after the break up of a relationship (moving on).
• Someone who doesn't think their current love interest is the right person for them.
• Someone who is considering relocating to escape the painful memories of a recent break up.
• Someone who has lost interest in something that once held much importance to them. 
• Someone who feels a huge void of emptiness after the loss of a friend/lover. 
• Someone who feels rejected, and disillusioned with the direction their life has been taking.
• Someone who abandons everything and goes off on a sabbatical journey in search of spiritual enlightenment.
• Someone who feels trapped in a relationship, and feels a strong urge to just run for the hills.
• Someone who feels they have already wasted enough time and energy on people who give nothing in return.

(11) Justice In Love

Justice In Love

Examples (in regards to romance/relationships):

• Someone who is weighing up the pros and cons of a union without emotional perspective.
• Someone who is thinking of proposing marriage, or they may be a recipient of such a proposal.
• Someone who may be involved in a divorce or other legal matter involving fair division of belongings, property etc 
• Someone who makes a firm decision and stands by this indefinitely, regardless of the resulting consequences or opinions of others.
• Someone who seeks to find a logical resolution to a current conflict or ominous situation. 
• Someone who chooses to go *no contact* with an ex after a difficult relationship break up.
• Someone who is seeking to restore balance and harmony after a particularly stressful time.
• Someone who is having to account for past actions (Good or Bad), if lies have been told they will be exposed.

(16) The Tower In Love

The Tower In Love

Examples (in regards to romance/relationships):

• Someone who is experiencing sudden upheaval and a dramatic change in circumstances.
• Someone who receives a nasty shock, or is involved in an *explosive* situation.
• Someone who engages in angry exchanges of words with another, arguments and disputes are serious enough to rock the very foundations of a relationship.
• Someone who gets a glimpse of an earth shattering truth about their love interest, that completely changes how they feel about them.
• Someone who stumbles upon a shocking revelation with catastrophic consequences to follow.
• Someone who is experiencing confrontation, anxiety and anger in the face of recent relationship issues.
• Someone who receives a sudden wake up call, a bolt from out of the blue, that changes circumstances forever. 
• Someone who is suffering the sudden loss of a loved one. 
• Someone who is exposed after a period of deception, friends and family may turn their backs in disgust
• Someone who waiting for the dust to settle after a chaotic and turbulent set of circumstances.

Ten of Swords In Love

Ten of Swords In Love

Examples(in regards to romance/relationships):

• Someone who has experienced a traumatic or catastrophic ending, and is suffering feelings of loss and hopelessness as a consequence.
• Someone who has come to the end of the line with certain situations in love, and can no longer cope.
• Someone who is being forced to pull their head out of the sand and face up to a harsh reality.
• Someone who is in complete shock, and can hardly take in the circumstances surrounding them.
• Someone who has hit *rock bottom* and is feeling depressed, and unable to get out of bed in the mornings.
• Someone who is suffering from chronic fatigue, and is unable to function properly on a day to day basis. 
• Someone who socially has become a recluse, refusing the answer the door or the telephone.
• Someone who feels as though they have lost everything, all their hard work and effort has come to nothing.
• Someone who is having to face up to a failed relationship, there may have been cheating and betrayal
• Someone who is in a violent or abusive relationship. This includes verbal, emotional or physical abuse.
• Someone who is witness to (or the perpetrator of) raging and angry behaviour, they may even lash out.
• Someone who is involved in a painful separation or divorce.

Ace of Coins (Pentacles) Reversed In Love

Ace of Coins Reversed In Love

Examples (in regards to romance/relationships):

• Someone who feels vulnerable and stressed, and could be worrying about money to the detriment of their relationship. 
• Someone who has fallen into bad habits which are having an adverse effect on current prosperity and productiveness.
• Someone who has placed no solid foundations on a current relationship, this may come in the form of *lack of commitment*
• Someone who is in poor health and is suffering from a lack of energy - despondency and lethargy reign.
• Someone whose relationship has broken down due to disagreements over money and finances.
• Someone who has made a wrong decision, and is now suffering the dire consequences.

Three of Wands In Love

Three of Wands In Love

Examples (in regards to romance/relationships):

• Someone who works overseas and is in a long distant relationship.
• Someone who is about to embark on an adventure, possibly a journey over water to foreign shores is on the cards, maybe even emigration.
• Someone who yearns for their current love interest who may be currently working abroad. 
• Someone who is already in a relationship but is keeping their options open in the hope of attracting a more desirable/compatible lover.
• Someone who is missing their independence, and longs for an escape from the emotional restrictions of a committed relationship.
• Someone who is sitting on the fence and does not really know where their passions lie at the moment. Looking out over the horizon they are restless, and unsure of how they truly feel.
• Someone who has invested time and energy into a relationship, and is now waiting to see if their efforts will be returned.
• Someone who doesn't invest in another person randomly or foolishly, but instead, can be quite picky, and expects the same level of commitment in return. 
• Someone who believes in *all or nothing* 

(17) The Star In Love

The Star In Love

Examples (in regards to romance/relationships):

• Someone who is about to have their *wishes come true*
• Someone who is filled with hope and optimism in personal affairs, and is looking forward to a more positive future with their love interest.
• Someone who is being totally honest and open, and is able to express themselves without holding back.
• Someone who is struggling in a relationship can look forward to happier, more positive times ahead.
• Someone who is daydreaming about their ideal romantic partner, whether they are actually in a relationship with them or not.
• Someone who is about to have a *soul-mate* encounter.
• Someone who idealizes their partner/love.

Knight of Coins (Pentacles) In Love

Knight of Coins In Love

Examples (in regards to romance/relationships):

• Someone who is reliable and dependable, and will do their best not to let others down.
• Someone who shies away from arguments and drama, and prefers a more steady pace of life.
• Someone who is currently bored in their relationship, and might need to add a dash of fun to liven things up.
• Someone who is sensual, and has a healthy appetite for physical pleasures.
• Someone who takes a common sense approach to life (in general), and could be examining facts and details with care.
• Someone who may be considering a healthier approach to looking after their body, and may decide to go on a diet or start an exercise regime at the gym.
• Someone who may be interested in another person but is currently keeping the growing feelings of attraction to themselves. (a crush)
• Someone bringing a message or news of good fortune in material affairs. 
• Someone who wants commitment within a relationship, and offers stability and loyalty to another in return for the same  (from a love interest).
• Someone who will receive promising news regarding a love interest, the time to settle down may be just over the horizon.

Queen of Wands In Love

Queen of Wands In Love

Examples (in regards to romance/relationships):

• A woman who is charismatic, and has a natural artistic flair. She wants her life to be passionate and full of excitement.
• A woman with a fiery temperament, she has strong leadership skills, and can be found in Senior Managerial roles, perhaps a female boss or work colleague.
• A woman who is optimistic and full of ideas, with high energy and self esteem. She may be chairing an important meeting, or overseeing a large production project.
• A woman who is definitely an extrovert, she may be encountered at a party, or other kind of social gathering. 
• (in a man's reading) A woman who he has set his sights on (for a long time) will show some romantic interest in him. 
• A woman with a high sex drive, who is adventurous and willing to try new things in the bedroom.
• A woman who can be a bit of a *drama queen* when events don't go exactly to her liking.
• A woman who is impressed by luxury and wealth, quite possibly a social climber.
• A woman who is most suited to teaching or mentoring roles, or any position involving her in the arts/media/acting etc

The Magician Reversed In Love

The Magician Reversed In Love

Examples (in regards to romance/relationships):

• Someone, usually (although not exclusively), a man, who absolutely cannot be trusted.
• Someone who is manipulative, and prone to convincingly telling lies.
• Someone who may have an anti-social personality disorder (NPD, BPD etc)
• Someone who uses the *charm offensive* approach to sway others to his way of thinking.
• Someone who is wasting their talents and skills, or is using them for less than dubious ends.
• Someone who is acting without giving much thought to the consequences, their behaviour may be reckless and irresponsible.
• Someone who misuses or abuses power to manipulate others.
• Someone who is being over confident, and taking on too much at once. 
• Someone who is dating several love interests at the same time.
• Someone who is evasive, and never gives a straight answer when asked a question about their personal life.

Nine of Cups In Love

Nine of Cups In Love

Examples (in regards to romance/relationships):

• Someone who is experiencing a feeling of immense happiness and satisfaction, everything seems to be flowing in a positive direction. 
• Someone who is about to have their *wishes come true* (however, be careful what you wish for).
• Someone who has fulfilled something that has been longed for (maybe for years), and is completely satisfied with their progress to date.
• Someone who may be about to enter into an emotionally fulfilling set of circumstances, it is a card of harmonious romantic attachments and amorous sexual encounters.
• Someone who is over indulging in too much eating, drinking, socializing and sex, to the detriment of their own health.
• Someone who may be feeling *smug* about their recent successes, and may be inclined to *show off* to others about them.
• Someone who is celebrating, and spending quality time with their loved ones.
• Someone who has fallen deeply (and sometimes blindly) in love with another. This card indicates those feelings will be reciprocated. 
• Someone who is excited about a house move or change of address.
• Someone who is reconciling with an old friend or lover after a past misunderstanding or argument.

Nine of Coins (Pentacles) In Love

Nine of Coins In Love

Examples (in regards to romance/relationships):

• Someone who has *everything* but no-one to share it with.
• Someone who is self-sufficient and happy in their independence, they may be enjoying a lifestyle of wealth and luxury.
• Someone who is completely concentrating on the *self* and indulging it.
• Someone who has a lot of friendships, but no one *special person* in their life.
• Someone who is not currently looking for love, and is instead happy focusing on their working/career environment (for the time being).
• Someone who is not ready for a long term relationship, despite feeling great affection for another, but only wanting to be friends.
• Someone who may be thinking of starting a *casual*  relationship with a close friend. (a mutual agreement)
• Someone who is living in (moving to) the countryside, deciding to leave behind the hustle and bustle of the city.
• Someone who is entering a period of relaxation after hard work and success have been attained. A much deserved holiday or short break perhaps.
• Someone who is spending time alone in nature, the great outdoors, surrounded by trees, flowers and birds.
• Someone who enjoys buying gifts for others (friends/family), and has a gregarious and generous spirit.
• Someone who is considering turning a much loved hobby into a business venture.

King of Cups In Love

King of Cups In Love 

Examples (in regards to romance/relationships):

• A man who is currently seeking to express himself on an emotional level, there is a lot going on below the surface. 
• A man who will provide you with a shoulder to cry on and a sympathetic ear when life becomes stressful (at times!)
• A man adrift on the choppy emotional waters of the mind, who maintains a calm veneer on the surface. He may be wary of becoming involved due to past hurt. He has learned to control his feelings.
• A man who remembers how it felt to have his heart broken, and who needs to be absolutely sure before becoming involved romantically with someone else again.
• (In a woman's reading) A man who feels a great affection for her, even if he doesn't openly display these feelings. 
• A man who inspires compromise, and encourages withdrawal from dramatic and overly stressful relationships. 
• A man whose sense of emotional aloofness and detachment can sometimes be difficult for others to understand. (still waters run deep)
• A man who is a devoted and giving lover, who is dedicated to those he loves. However, his tendency towards self neglect, can lead him into addictions and destructive behaviours.
•  A man who may play relationship or emotional games, commitment issues may be blocking the road to happiness.

Eight of Wands In Love

Eight of Wands In Love

Examples (in regards to romance/relationships):

• Someone who feels the pace of life suddenly speeding up and gaining momentum.
• Someone who will be making travel arrangements in a great hurry, and departing for foreign shores via an aeroplane. (maybe a holiday or short break)
• Someone who will be receiving great news regarding a love interest, that may arrive *out of the blue*.
• Someone who comes to a positive conclusion, after a period of uncertainty in a relationship.
• Someone who will experience a period of *trouble-free* progress without any major obstacles blocking the road ahead.
• Someone who is pierced with the *arrows of love* - an intense, passionate upsurge of powerful feelings towards another are indicated.
• Someone who will experience a frenzied time of emotional activity with non-stop phone calls, letters and emails.
• Someone who gets swept up in a crazy wave of enthusiasm about a potential love interest. (infatuation)
• Someone who feels energised and eager, and gets *carried away* in the moment.
• Someone who will have presented to them, several promising offers to choose from.
• Someone who will experience the sudden intoxicating feeling of *being madly and passionately in love* 
• Someone who will either embark on a long-distance relationship, or who will have a passionate encounter with someone they meet whilst travelling.

(10) Wheel of Fortune In Love

Wheel of Fortune In Love

Examples (in regards to romance/relationships):

• Someone who has a total change of heart regarding a current relationship.
• Someone whose romantic *fortunes* are about to suddenly change, a stroke of luck or a chance encounter may be indicated.
• Someone who is being challenged to *take a risk* and *expect the unexpected*
• Someone who is able to turn events around in their favour to suit their current purpose.
• Someone who will experience *luck* and *opportunity* in affairs of the heart. 
• Someone who may possibly have a meeting by coincidence that changes the direction of life for the better.
• Someone who is experiencing many ups and downs within a current relationship, a feeling of going round in circles.
• Someone who has changing feelings/opinions regarding a current love interest, and doesn't know what to do for the best.
• Someone who feels unstable within a relationship, and doesn't know where they stand.
• Someone who will be presented with an important opportunity which must be grasped with both hands.
• Someone who believes that *fate* brings people together (a soulmate encounter)
• Someone experiencing a major turning point.
• Someone experiencing movement or progress in personal matters after a period of inactivity.

(20) Judgement In Love

Judgement In Love

Examples (in regards to romance/relationships):

• Someone who has had a recent *awakening* regarding a love situation. A sudden realisation or epiphany that major changes are needed.
• Someone touched by *the laws of karma*  (Good or Bad)
• Someone who needs to be true to themselves, regardless of the consequences that may result from being completely honest. 
• Someone who needs to *atone* for past wrongs, and realize their part (contribution) in the present situation.
• Someone who either harshly *judges* or  feels unfairly *judged* by others. (misconstrued or misunderstood).
• Someone who is currently healing from a past broken relationship. 
• Someone who wants to apologize, and make amends for past wrongs.
• Someone who wants to tell the truth, or come clean about an issue weighing heavily on their mind.
• Someone who is forced to see the consequences of their actions (Good or Bad)
• Someone leaving behind a relationship or situation that has ultimately served its purpose.
• Someone who needs to avoid carrying old baggage into new relationships, and from judging others in the present too harshly for past wrongs.
• Someone who needs a completely  *fresh start* after learning from past mistakes
• Someone who *suddenly realises* how they really feel about another. 

Three of Coins (Pentacles) In Love

Three of Coins In Love

One card that I am often asked about in a love reading is the Three of Coins. This can be a difficult card to interpret at first glance, because it speaks predominantly about career aspects (work). 

Examples (in regards to romance/relationships):

• Someone who loves their work, and has no time for romance due to career commitments. (commitment phobes and workaholics)
• Someone who wants to focus on the *group* instead of *one-on-one* relationships. 
• Someone who may be ready to compromise (after a disagreement), or contribute to making things work. 
• Someone who is in a relationship connected with their current working environment. 
• Someone who is involved in a *love triangle* within the working environment (three people involved).
• Someone who defines their personality or sense of self worth by their profession. 
• Someone who is good at what they do, and has earned respect in their chosen field, to the detriment of their close relationships with others.
• Someone who uses their career to block out deeper feeling of emotional pain or distress, that they do not want to face up to. (Hides behind their work).
• Someone involved in a meeting of minds, working together to create something completely new.